Advice for LIVING HAPPY…..
Published by C.S. Shaw
Always start your day, with gratitude. The more you give thanks, the more things the Universe will provide you to be thankful for.
A positive mindset will help you create a positive life. BELIEVE!
Open your heart to adventure – believe in love in first sight and in happily ever after.
Never say “I love you” if you don’t mean it. Be TRUE to your soul.
Always look into a person’s eyes when you are communicating.
Live with someone for at least a year, before you get married.
Open your heart to love. Learn to love without fear or conditions.
Marry a man/woman you love to talk to – communication is vital to a lasting relationship.
Respect the dreams, goals, or ambitions of others.
In disputes, always fight fairly and stand your ground when you are right! When it is over forgive and let go – never hold on to anger.
Never judge people by their family members or friends. Each person is unique, respect that uniqueness.
Think before you speak!
Know that you don’t have to explain yourself to others. If someone asks you something you don’t feel comfortable responding to, be honest and tell them, you do not wish to talk about it right now.
Know that change is always in your hands and that change, may require taking a risk. Risk can be a good thing.
Everyone has “free will” you cannot change a person or their actions, any more than they can change you, without your decision/desire to change.
When you fail or lose at something – remember the lesson you learned from the situation, not the failure or loss. FORGIVE.
Remember to love and respect yourself and all others, and to take responsibility for all of your actions!
Don't let a little quarrel harm a good friendship; FORGIVE. If space is needed create space and time for healing between you.
Whenever you realize you've made a mistake, an error, or committed a perceived wrong, take immediate steps to correct it. Always forgive yourself and others!
Greet everyone you pass with a smile - whether you are feeling happy or not - smiles are contagious, you will likely attract more smiles by doing this and it will lift your spirits and theirs.
Get some YOU time – meditate, read, exercise, do yoga, take a nap, listen to relaxing music... Taking care of you, is important. You are a PRIORITY!